I'm supposed to be asleep at this hour, but after reading the latest post from Zul's blog has kept me up.. In case where some might be wondering what the heck I'm referring to, here's an extract from his entry... (Zul, hope you dun mind ya bro)
"what if one day you get married... and only found out that your wife is impotent??... what would you do?"
"wat if u are already married and you only realised that you are impotent?"
A normal human's reaction: " No, it will not happen to me." and I guess this issue won't be discuseed with our partners as it may seem of unimportance however it might aslo be too sensitive an issue to touch upon.
My mind keep asking.." so fad.. what will you do"
Honestly, I do not know how to handle this. It can just bring someone down even thinking about it. But to me in the circumstances that you are married?? If the wife is impotent, the chances of husband leaving will be a likelihood. If the husband's impotent? I think its both. The chances of wife leaving is also there, the husband leaving the wife is also there. (as the husband might be too ashamed of himself)
I guess its even worst if you gotta know it before you are married. Can your partner accept the fact? Can we ourself accept that fact?? True enough, if you were to discuss it with your gf or bf now, they might say that its alright and there are other alternatives of conceiving. But note that its ONLY A DISCUSSION. But when it actually happens to you?? Honestly, I don't think those sweet words will be there.
It'll be a lie right if an individual doesn't think twice bout their partners?? I assume even in cases where they are already married. But then, in my views, this is the period where its either you make it together or break it. Like love said to me ,"it'll be a sweet success if both were to pull through it together and eventually produce results." Yupz.. suceess will be sweet if you manage to pull it together, but what if you don't?? Its just gonna ruin somebody's life, somebody's future and definitely my own future if it happens to me. So are we willing to take the risk of ruining someone elses life knowing that our own future is bleak? Although we might wanna take note that its all god's will that it happens to us..
.."sedangkan sebuah perkhawinan boleh tercetusnya percerian akibat kenyataan ini, apatah lagi dua insan yang masih dalam alam percintaan.."
.."will this be a test of true love?"....
*sighs*.... inside my head now are all nothing but just ? ? ? ? ? ?
ps: thanks zul, it's really an eye opener cos I have never thought of all of this before and its a good thing that it was surface up in your post. Hehe.
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