As I have mentioned in my previous entry.. this entry is all about "girlfriend material" or "wife material" thingy. To me its a total crap thingy. Its gonna have lotsa discrimination be it ladies or guys.. Please take note: For those who doesn't like what i have written, simple; sue me for defamation provided you can prove that its you whom i'm talking about. HAHA!! *evil evil me* (and najie, sorry if i gotta quote from your blog)

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QUOTED FROM NAJIE'S BLOG:

Girlfrien material : These gerls are the most commonly found along the five foot way to your neighbourhood shop. You can't single them out, but you can definitely point to one if you see them. The smell of a gerlfren material gerls just lingers as you walked past them. believe me! You can't go wrong!

Wife material are those ladies that when you meet them, you will be truck by their internal beauty, apart from the physical attraction. These gerls will in turn sweep them off their feet and bring heaven to his feet.
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Firstly, how do you actually define gf material or wife material and who are we to judge that? Just by observing someone from the five foot way and label them as gf material or wife material? How lame and narrow minded can one get? What happens to inner beauty?? Hakz! Judging from guys or ladies nowadays, inner beauty doesnt come to mind at all..

What is it that caught ur eyes when you first set your eyes on a woman or a man? If you tell me its by behaviour, let me just say "CUT THE CRAP!!" *sniggers* True enuff for guys, gf material are those whom they can have fun with.. do all the stuffs together and be happy together but they will never never acknowledge this kinda ladies to be the wife material. Cos y?? "the thought comes: if you can do this with me.. you can also do it with others" but at the same time they wanna spend their time with these kinda ladies cos they ENJOY being with them. well ladies.. that's a hard fact to accept but its reality. Selfish?? Yes. Heartless?? No doubt about it. But they do not realise that what makes them think that they are the 'husband material' to judge a lady that way?? And why is it that ladies never thought about whether is this bf of mine a husband material or just a passing phase?? Maybe ladies are not dat crude. So if a lady who wants to be loved, should dey be a gf material or a wife material??

Lets just face the truth... men will always look for the h the gf material FIRST, and they reserved the one for the 'WIFE' material. That's how scandals, affairs all surfaced. COS the ones they have are just WIFE material but not the gf material.They can leave you anytime they want, but when the gal who is just a gf material leaves them? Wat happens?? Stories will be told.. Badmouthing etc. saying that that gal is just being too clingy. For goodness sake, doesnt it takes two hands to clap?? For the ladies, if you have this kinda of guy.. trust me .. scrap that guy. He's jus toying with your feelings No doubts, ladies will normally give 2nd chance to their partners, but if were being slapped by that kinda verbal insults? Any signs of respect? NIL i think.

Ladies would like to think that their partner is perfect.. and not capable of doing such things.. But please ladies.. wake up and smell the coffee.. THEY are capable of doing anything they want..its just a matter whether they want to or not. If you ladies think that you belong to the wifey material category, you will lose out in lotsa ways.. And even if you are in a state of denial.. how long can it last?? One day, you gotta face reality den da hard truth will sink in. Same goes for us ladies.. we are also capable of doing all these things to the men, but then again, by the end of the day we will be labelled as Bit*hes or sLu*s or someone who doesnt earn any self respect and pride. But why is it that when a guy does all this kinda things its consider a norm?? Why dat discrimination??

And to you guys.. if you are the type of person who always goes out to have fun, clubbing etc and leaving your girlfriends at home.. Are you so ashamed of your gal?? you are no husband material either so dun judge a lady whether she is a gf material or wife material..

I'm just writing in general here.. Everyone wants to have a perfect partner of their own.. But in this world, nobody's perfect. You either make it or break it.All i can say is another man's lost is another man's gain....

posted by DeViLiCiOuS @ Monday, September 19, 2005